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Legacy Legacy Legacy

"You have no idea what your legacy will be. Your legacy is what you do everyday. Your legacy is every life you’ve touched, every person whose life was either moved or not. It’s every person you’ve harmed or helped, that’s your legacy.’ I don’t think about it. I just try to live it." Dr. Maya Angelou

When I decided to start my blog I wasn't really sure what I wanted to write about. I only knew what I DID NOT want to write about. I didn't want to be some superficial person behind the keyboard dispensing advice regarding stuff I have no clue about, but read five articles and have deemed myself an expert or professional.

ACAllenderGirl is authentically me.

ACallenderGirl is my My Life album.....minus the rusty razor, the line of cocaine, and empty vodka bottle.

It's my The Black album. It's my struggles, my mistakes my advice. It's stories about my unshakable faith

(being mad at him doesn't mean you stop trusting him), imperfect marriage (longevity doesn't equate to perfection) adventures in parenting, my crazy family and irreplaceable friends. Sharing is just me learning and growing. Becoming who God intended me to be. Stepping up and out.

We all have assignments in life that are supposed to make humanity whole. We are supposed to make contributions to this life not just skate through it. We are supposed to make deposits of positive energy into the universe instead of constant withdrawls. Mentor a kid. I will never forget Tyrone Grant and my days spent at the Newark Boys and Girls Club. Become a Volunteer. Back away from social media sometimes and take a walk. Nourish relationships. Make phone calls instead of sending a text. I did that one Christmas and it made my uncles day!! After they determined no one had died. LOLOL!! Apologize to a friend you haven't spoken to even if you forgot who was wrong. ( I did it...I love you Trina!!)

What if everyone meant what they said, behaved like they claimed and gave back as much as they've taken?

So many breadcrumbs have been left. Here are two of my favorites.

"When the student is ready the teacher will appear". Zen Proverb

No matter how much we think we know there is always more to learn....especially from yourself!

"Mark 10:43-45 Whoever wants to be a leader among you must first be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be a slave for all. For even I, the Son of Man, came here not to be served but to serve others, and to give my life as a ransom for many"..The Big Guy. (NLT)

So yea, I can post once a week and give paragraphs of meaningless The Blueprint 3.

Or I can give Reasonable Doubt EVERY TIME I POST. *smirk*


Musings of...
Life Lessons
Everyday STUFF
she is me...

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Jax Callender

"More that just a cute kid"

The Callender Grp LLC

"Life begins at home"

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